The Gift of Absence: Why Showing Up Empty Handed Isn't Always a Sin In etiquette circles, it's long been considered proper to bring a gift to social gatherings.
However, reader Rebecca Crecelius recently suggested an alternative approach in a letter to advice columnist Prudie: instead of expecting a contribution, tell your guest what they can bring.
Crecelius' idea resonated with many readers who struggle with the expectation of bringing something to share.